Published Date : 24/06/2025
Using ChatGPT at first was like talking to the kind of amnesiac seen in movies and TV. You'd have to introduce yourself and explain a bit about your preferences every time you interacted, or else deal with a more generic set of responses. That's all changed now.
Like a selective sponge, ChatGPT can absorb various details about you from your conversations. And ChatGPT's memory feature allows you to write a whole autobiography to teach ChatGPT about yourself. There are plenty of benefits to a more personalized AI chatbot. It reduces repetition in conversations, streamlines the process of getting the kind of answers you prefer, and generally makes the experience feel more natural and intuitive. However, like a human relationship, what ChatGPT remembers or how it interprets what you share may not always align with your intended meaning.
If you want ChatGPT to actually know you, here’s how you can ensure it will remember everything about you that you want, and nothing else.
1. Introduce Yourself
This is going to sound obvious, but you should tell ChatGPT your name. You can put it as a note in the memory feature or just say it straight to the AI in a conversation. You can also suggest nicknames or other terms you'd like to be called, either in general or assigned to different roles you might want them to have.
As a test and a joke, I told it a few silly nicknames I've had over the years, like
Q: Can I change the information ChatGPT remembers about me?
A: Yes, you can edit or delete information in ChatGPT's memory to ensure it only remembers what you want.
Q: How does ChatGPT use the information I provide?
A: ChatGPT uses the information to personalize its responses, making conversations more natural and tailored to your preferences.
Q: Is my information secure in ChatGPT?
A: OpenAI takes data security seriously and implements various measures to protect user information.
Q: Can I use nicknames with ChatGPT?
A: Yes, you can tell ChatGPT your nicknames, and it will use them in conversations as appropriate.
Q: How often should I audit ChatGPT's memory?
A: It's a good idea to audit ChatGPT's memory regularly, especially after significant changes in your life or preferences.